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How To Get A Woman’s Phone Number And Email In 3 minutes or Less Anytime, Anyplace!

Let me ask you a few questions…

Do you get nervous and start stuttering whenever you see a beautiful lady and wanted to get her phone digits?

Does your palm “sweats” whenever you saw that girl you always want get with but don’t know exactly what to say to her to get her number and get her to go out with you?

Do you get “shot-down” Anytime you used the old-tired-line “why don’t you give your number and I will call you?”

Or worse, have you finally given up on approaching women altogether because you afraid she might slap you or disgrace you in front of your friends, so you always makes up excuses every time you saw a woman by saying: “she is not my type?” or “she probably has a boyfriend?”

Just give me a “silent nod” if one of those questions hit home for you…

… Trust me, it’s nothing to be ashamed of… I have been exactly where you are, so I get it.

Today’s letter is designed and armed to attack and handle this for you… and after reading this and you still couldn’t approach women and successfully get her number in a minimum record time… then you seriously need more help than I thought…

So are you ready? Let’s go…

I perfected the art of getting phone numbers years ago before I was married.

If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I’m in a hurry). I found out later, after working like a mad scientist on this, that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESN’T EQUAL SUCCESS.

When you call a woman for the first time, she’ll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude. It’s almost like she’s a different person than the one you met.

I’ve found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it gets more positive responses later on. It’s almost as if women appreciate it that you’ve taken the time to think about what you’re going to say when you write an email to them and they think of you more like someone they know.

So without further ado…

Here’s How to Get a Woman’s Number Fast:

After I’ve talked to a woman for about 2 or 3 minutes, I’ll often say something like “Well, it was nice meeting you. I’m going to get back to my friends.”

They usually don’t know what to do, as they’re used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say “It was nice meeting you too…”Then, just as I’m turning to walk away and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say “HEY! Do you have email?”

The “HEY!” is a bit surprising and “Do you have email” is non-threatening. In fact, I’m technically asking her if she HAS email, not if she’ll GIVE IT TO ME.

If she says “yes,” I take out a pen and paper and say “Great, write it down for me” and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the ‘yes’ that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they’ve almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE’S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say “Write your number down there too.”

When you ask for an email, it’s very low risk for a woman, so she’ll think “Fine, I’ll do that.” Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can choose later to just not answer.

The magic of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they’re in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human behavior.

She’s already mentally said “OK, I’ll give you my email address”… and she’s in the middle of writing it down. When you say “And just write your number down there too” it’s only NATURAL to just write it.

I’ve gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or two – no kidding!

In other words, it’s a MUCH smaller step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this simple move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice.

Like I said, I’ve tried all kinds of things. And I’ve gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact sequence every time
I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I’ve gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or two – no kidding!

Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I prefer the Fancy small industrial pen. Because women love small and classy things. (No pun intended, Lol)

A good friend of mine and dating expert David Wygant has put together a dating program that teaches you how to meet women and get their phone number’s, anytime and anyplace. To learn more click here.

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